About "Intimacy Series: The Four Types of Attraction"
What is attraction? How do I become more attractive ? How do I attract the right person?
How do we stay attracted? What turns attraction off? What can turn it on?
In this session of our Intimacy Series, Hannah will describe how attraction actually works by revealing four main types. Discover what creates that electricity and magnetism to a person and what switches it off. Understand how to discern between ego and soul attraction and as couples why we get turned off or turned on in our relationships.
P.S... none of the four types of attraction are physical.
Intimacy Series: The Four Types of Attraction
Welcome to the first lesson, get grounded with a short meditation as Hannah walks you through the foundational aspects of every relationship and the blocks you have in relation to love.
What is attraction?
Attraction is essentially when you’re drawn to a certain quality or energy in a person. Or when two energies are drawn together, pulled towards each other. A certain quality/energy evokes desire and liking.
Why and how that happens gets more complex and we can go into great detail if we were to look at each of you individually but for now I’m going to try to help you understand attraction through exploring what I’ve decided are the four types of attraction.
Ego attraction is born out of the need to satisfy your ego and unresolved wounds from the past.
We’re often completely unconscious of this.
The unresolved wounds in your energy field become a point of attraction and without you knowing it drives you to be attracted to a particular type of person. It emanates out and attracts these experiences to show you what’s hidden beneath the surface.
Emotional Intimacy is the second type of attraction because there’s always a part of us seeking for union.
Wanting to feel as close, intimate, as we can to another.
To feel as little separation so that love can flow through unencumbered.
Sex can be that final expression of union, connection.
Instead of finding connection through sex, it's that sex is the result of our emotional connection.
For that to happen there’s one main block/piece that has to be addressed:
The part of us that’s afraid to let someone fully in - to be fully seen.
Ancient cultures all over the world understand that all energy is essentially 2 polarities of form. Masculine + feminine, Positive + Negative, Yin + Yang, Shiva + Shakti. The further away they are from each other, the higher the attraction.
In Soul Connection, the relationship has a higher purpose other than ego satisfaction when you come together. It goes beyond ego attraction and culminates in sexual energy, soul contracts, twin flames, and chemistry.
Purest type of attraction is desire without need.
When you start healing the parts of you that look for familiar roles to play out with the masculine or feminine, you’ll stop needing to play them out and attract something different. Bring the unconscious to the conscious so you can start healing the blocks to love.
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